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I've learned that sometimes the questions you don't ask in a psychic reading provide you the answers you really need. We don't notice some of the dynamics of a situation when we're in the middle of it, especially something stressful. Our own emotions can get in the way, and we can't process our thoughts smoothly, nor pick up on intuitive information when it tries to get our attention. But, the message from Spirit will still get to us, one way or another.
I'll give you a couple examples of how I have seen this in play in other peoples' readings. In "Denisha's" (not her name) situation, the answer from Spirit was not the When, but the How. She wanted to know When "John" would return in her life again (which I sensed was a no-go, he was long gone and not returning).
I could barely hear her speaking due to the loudness of a noisy anger emanating from her energy (the anger actually had a sound to it, a "vibration"). And I was distracted by what clairvoyantly looked like a "score book" floating around her head. It wasn't a scorecard, it was a whole book, a ledger full of grudges and resentments she kept front-and-center in her mind regarding John. I intuited that she frequently reviewed every page of it, again and again, and that during their relationship, she sadistically enjoyed punishing John whenever she was right.
When I tuned into John's energy, who was not in attendance at the session, I sensed that he had endured a barrage of verbal abuse from Denisha. It started to disturb me, to be honest. This lady had an anger management problem. I was a little surprised because it's more common, I think, to see this dynamic the other way around: the male is commonly the oppressor, and the female the oppressed. When I honestly pointed out what I sensed, she did not deny it, but just sat there quietly, staring at the floor. Was she finally making the connection between her behavior and his reaction to it? Not quite yet.
I've learned that sometimes the questions you don't ask in a psychic reading provide you the answers you really need. We don't notice some of the dynamics of a situation when we're in the middle of it, especially something stressful. Our own emotions can get in the way, and we can't process our thoughts smoothly, nor pick up on intuitive information when it tries to get our attention. But, the message from Spirit will still get to us, one way or another.
When It's Not the "When," but the "How"
I'll give you a couple examples of how I have seen this in play in other peoples' readings. In "Denisha's" (not her name) situation, the answer from Spirit was not the When, but the How. She wanted to know When "John" would return in her life again (which I sensed was a no-go, he was long gone and not returning).
I could barely hear her speaking due to the loudness of a noisy anger emanating from her energy (the anger actually had a sound to it, a "vibration"). And I was distracted by what clairvoyantly looked like a "score book" floating around her head. It wasn't a scorecard, it was a whole book, a ledger full of grudges and resentments she kept front-and-center in her mind regarding John. I intuited that she frequently reviewed every page of it, again and again, and that during their relationship, she sadistically enjoyed punishing John whenever she was right.
When I tuned into John's energy, who was not in attendance at the session, I sensed that he had endured a barrage of verbal abuse from Denisha. It started to disturb me, to be honest. This lady had an anger management problem. I was a little surprised because it's more common, I think, to see this dynamic the other way around: the male is commonly the oppressor, and the female the oppressed. When I honestly pointed out what I sensed, she did not deny it, but just sat there quietly, staring at the floor. Was she finally making the connection between her behavior and his reaction to it? Not quite yet.